being together w the person u love most of cos is a happy occasion...but how do we noe if the person love us the most??? forever??? at tt particular moment or instanteously??? or even vaguely- which refers to sometimes it's there n sometimes it's not...

read jiamin blog juZ now...true...we r selfish...but i beg to differ...

who proclaims u will b the happiest when u r w the person u love...it is true tt the person who makes u cry is the person who can solve ur grievances...but...he might not b the best person to make u smile...being together w the person u love most is wat everyone yearn for...but in reality..we tend to settle for the second best...we r selfish...becos we wan to seek for the person who love us more...n at the end o the day...we wld not b sore...

if knowing tis person wld upset me...aggravate me further...i will choose to stick to someone whom i dun love instead o goin back to him...y? cos i wan to b happy...

i rem when i was at the young age o 14...my cousin once referred n incident abt her fren...she was pregnant when she's 14...n she married the guy at 19 tt time....after 7 yrs...when my cousin saw her down the streets...she is still chirpy as ever...affectionate n all w her husband...such fairytale r realli a rare sight..it's one in a million

on the contrary...i haf heard more cases o bitches n jerks...for instance...there was a happy couple walking down their 10 yrs o relationship...juZ b4 mths when they r abt to walk down the aisle...tt guy fell for another...so, wat does it show??? tt person has been selfishly hiding his feeling tt in actual fact, he doesnt love her so in the past??? no...it's wrong...in fact...his love wavered n changed... we r not looking at a point o time...we r looking at the continual flow...as much as i tink i m mean...i still tink it's not his err...cos at least he chose to back out knowing he dun love her anymore

however,for me, i will will stick to the person i chose...loving him or not is seriously not the issue...the issue is...wld i b falling into the abyss... ultimately...i m usualli the dominant one... i adore victory...well...i m selfish in a way...but at least...i will preserve all-myself and my chosen one...n...i m not fickled...well..i m actualli fickled...but once my eyes have set on one...n he has reciprocated...he's destined to b mine...unless he chose to lve...crap...anyone understand such ambiguous blog???